While I’m not one for New Year’s resolutions, I am all for
ongoing reflection and taking the time to think about life and what can be done
to further enjoy the experience. Clearly
the holiday season often affords extra opportunity to walk, talk, think and
reflect.
It has been said that, “big doors swing on little hinges.” A couple of metal hinges, held in by a few
screws, will hold and swing a door many, many times their own weight. And not only that, they will hold and swing
the door flush and square. Often when
the door is not swinging freely it is the hinges, not the door, that need
lubricating.
I think of the hinges of life as the decisions I make –
decisions that lead to actions.
So, if it’s big change you’re looking for in 2014, think
about small decisions – small decisions that either now or over time lead to a big
difference.
All too often people set New Year’s resolutions that are
really nothing more than wishes. They
are often big goals that they hope will change their current reality or transform
their lives – lose xx kgs, spend less and
save more, work smarter not harder, quit smoking, do a 100 day challenge and so
on, and on…. and on… and on.
For me 2014 is not about big goals. It’s about being present and making better ‘in
the moment’ decisions. I don’t mean big
decisions, but simple in the moment decisions.
Biting my tongue even when I could justify a truthful
response. Speaking out when I might have
otherwise been silent. Cooking a meal when a takeaway seems appealing. Responding now to a customer or colleague’s
request when someone else suggests a quick coffee. Walking to the next bus stop instead of
standing and waiting. Commuting on my
bike (either bicycle or motorbike) instead of in my car. Using what I have rather than buying
something new. Noticing someone’s new tie, suit or haircut.
Nothing big just better, every day, in the moment decisions.
While making optimal in the moment decisions will improve my
relationships, my health and my wealth, more importantly they will improve the
lives of those around me. I will make a positive
difference not only to each person I encounter, but also to the environment and
my customers’ and employer’s businesses.
The communities in which I live, work and play will be better places.
2014 isn’t about making big changes. For me it is about making better, small, in
the moment decisions. On these little
hinges the big doors of opportunity, success and happiness for all around me will
either swing open or shut.
Cheers!
